Act of Marriage I write this blog aware that conversations about sex often carry personal history—joy, regret, confusion, or pain. This is not an abstract topic, and I approach it with care. What follows is not a comprehensive theology, but a reflection rooted in Scripture and pastoral experience, offered in the hope that clarity might replace confusion and reverence might replace shame. I write this blog out of my own frustration in how the church has handled this topic and in the lack of open discussion concerning sex as I grew up. Over my 40 years of marriage and over 30 years as a minister it is a topic that I have searched the Bible and discovered that what is treated as a secret in the church and in many Christian homes is actually well addressed in scripture. The following questions I have posed in my head many times throughout my life. Why does sex generate so much anxiety in the Church? Why do faithful Christians feel embarrassed by something God created...